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It feels like, globally right now, there’s a quick descent into a mindset of lack.
A sense of tightening. Of “everyone for themselves.” Of resources feeling scarce, and people holding on more tightly. I can feel how easy it is to get pulled into that. One thing that reassures me, and also separates me from this collective slide into lack, is knowing who I am and what I’m here for. I get a lot of self-awareness from contemplating the Gene Keys, for example. If you haven’t come across the Gene Keys, it’s worth downloading your free profile and starting with your Activation Sequence. The first sphere you’ll see is your Life’s Work. It’s often described as what you’re here to express in the world, what you offer to others, though not in a fixed or prescriptive way. It’s more like a pattern you can observe over time. A set of frequencies that show up in how you move, what you’re drawn to, and where your energy goes. For me, my Life’s Work is Gene Key 14. Each Gene Key has a shadow, a gift, and a highest expression, the siddhi. We move through all three. It’s not linear, and it’s ongoing. What’s beautiful about the Gene Keys is that it’s all about contemplation. It’s not a system telling you who you are. It’s a set of concepts you hold in your mind and discover meaning from in your own time. At the shadow level, Gene Key 14 is about compromise. It’s about misdirected energy, putting effort into things that don’t quite feel right. I’ve spent a lot of years there, in relationships that felt like compromise, in living and work situations that drained me, and I can still fall back into it. For me, compromise often looks like saying yes to the wrong opportunities. Saying yes when I feel over-extended. Saying yes out of guilt or obligation. Saying yes just to be nice. Saying yes to people who don’t really value or respect my time and energy. Saying yes to something that doesn’t truly light me up. I can feel the cost of that. My energy leaks. I feel under-resourced, bitter, and closer to burnout. At the gift level, Gene Key 14 becomes competence. Competence, to me, is continual learning, refining, and becoming resourced in what you do. These days, I feel it in my business a lot of the time. It’s not perfect, it’s still evolving, and it’s definitely more developed in some areas more than others. But the feeling of competence usually outweighs the feeling of compromise. And I see it in the people I work with too. Heavy lifting really is the perfect practice to move into competence. When people start to lift weights, they become more capable, more grounded, more resourced in themselves. They move out of compromise and into competence. At its highest expression, Gene Key 14 becomes bounteousness. Bounteousness is such a beautiful concept. It’s a kind of natural generosity where your energy supports and enriches others. You have abundance and you circulate it. Bounteousness is like the sun, it gives of itself endlessly and tirelessly. I often think of it like this: At the shadow level, I’m a leaky wagon. Energy in, energy straight out. When I recognise I’m in the shadow and consciously choose to move through it to the gift frequency of competence, I retain more of my own energy. I feel solid in myself. I’m competent and I trust myself more. When I move toward bounteousness, that energy starts to circulate instead of leak. And it circulates without depleting me. I start “radiating prosperity.” For me, bounteousness isn’t just about money or resources. It’s about having time for all the things I want to include in my life. It’s about being fiercely passionate about everything that I choose to do. It’s about having gratitude and appreciation for everything I have. It’s about simplicity, not having too much clutter, but just the right amount of everything. It’s about being healthy, strong, fit and resilient. It’s also about people. In Human Design, I’m a conscious 4th line. Everything comes through my network. And so the quality of my network is everything. When I’m surrounded by people who feel good to be around, people who recognise, value, and respect me, the energy of bounteousness builds. There’s ease. There’s trust. There’s natural reciprocity. I felt this recently in my first workshop that included my deeper intuitive and somatic healing. What stood out was the quality of people I attracted. Everyone felt good to be around. After the workshop, everyone said the same thing: “That felt like such a lovely group of women.” Someone said: “It felt like we were all meant to be there.” People who resonate with me and my energy come to me to experience being well-resourced and competent, and then they take it into their own lives. As their competence is embodied, it evolves into bounteousness and it circulates. This feels so important right now. Because bounteousness is the opposite of “everyone for themselves.” It’s the opposite of lack and scarcity. It’s generosity. Reciprocity. Community. Connection. Gratitude. It’s being part of something bigger than just survival. It’s an overflowing wagon radiating prosperity. You can’t get there just by having money. If you’re hoarding, holding tightly, not sharing, you might have abundance of resources, but not generosity. And without generosity, it isn’t bounteousness. Because bounteousness is a feeling of having more than enough. Bounteousness by definition doesn’t have any boundaries. It’s about giving freely, generously, and abundantly. In practice, that doesn’t mean I give away my money just to prove my generosity. My generosity flows naturally from a place of competence and being well-resourced, not from obligation or self-sacrifice. Generosity must be grounded in competence. And competence has boundaries. I must have a sustainable income so that my business can support people. Giving away all your resources without first being competent is a form of compromise. In practice, it’s about opening my energy, my time, and my attention, in ways that are sustainable and real, so it can truly circulate without depleting me. For me, it comes back to this: Noticing when I’m compromising, saying yes to things or people that drain me. Choosing, where I can, to come back to competence. To what feels aligned, grounded, well-resourced. To what doesn’t leak energy. Saying yes only to what I have the energy for. Saying yes only to people who feel good to be around. And from there, letting my energy be open. So it doesn’t just support me, but flows outward, into the people and spaces around me.
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